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Question: I recently got a id of my husband which revealed all his personal dating sites. what to do?

(Posted by: Reshma on 2010-03-11 02:55:13)

I found his id which revealed all his other accounts to make friendship only to have s.x. and i also saw the prostitutes photos whom he wanted to meet in bombay. when i asked him he refused at the beginning and now he has accepted only because i told him that i will take a divorce. he has told me tht he has never done anything worng except on net. How do i belive this person in future. i never got a pin doubt on this person all my life long 10 yrs tht he may do such a thing in my life. He also assured me he will not do it again on top of it he blamed me for not having anal sx with him which made him do all these. Now i am totaly confused and mentally disturbed. Friends Plz Help Me...... NO VULGAR REPLY "S PLZ its a question of my life as i am very much depressed.

Posted by: Cat. •That's all... on 2010-03-11, 03:03:23

Hi from France ♫ I understand you are confused Miss ! Anyway, I think before take a divorce you must reflect much more !.. But only you can know if you can forgive him, or not ! It's really a PERSONAL choice so .. Sorry I wish you the best, Catherine

Posted by: free_angel on 2010-03-11, 02:57:51

Shove that id up his a.s.s. and ask him does he think you believe his bullshit excuses?

Posted by: Wacawaca on 2010-03-11, 03:07:04

Sweetie your husband has a sex addiction problem, and he has no right to blame you for not doing anal sex. Where did he learn that from anyways... it's not something he thought of by himself. allaboutlifechallenges.org/ Sexual-Addiction.htm

Posted by: tropnhof. on 2010-03-11, 03:15:09

For him to try to use your refusal to have anal sex is nonsense, so don't fall for that. Its just bs. As far as the online stuff.... you know, all men and all women have sexual fantasies. I have a married friend, and he and his wife both watch porn from time to time online, sometimes together, and sometimes alone. Does your husband have to become a complete saint? Maybe if you would allow him to enjoy that some... it would give him a bit of an outlet. Maybe you would like it some too. Just a thought. Basically, only time will tell. See what happens. If you don't want to do the anal stuff, just say no. Gee, a marriage shouldn't live or die just because of that.

Posted by: Rick31 on 2010-03-11, 03:24:54

Get rid of the computer. When computers are abused, people get hurt. No decent man who is married would act like you so-called husband. He is a cheater and a loser.

Posted by: kamal on 2010-03-11, 03:35:23

Give time to ur husband to keep his promise

Posted by: Shaily G on 2010-03-11, 03:42:15

First ask him if he is happy with you or not then ask why he did that and just collect the proofs and show him the proofs .show that to him and throw your husband out of the house.

Posted by: LG on 2010-03-11, 03:55:32

Keep a watch on him and give him a chance. everyone needs a chance to improve.

Posted by: WoodyBGon on 2010-03-11, 04:11:35

**I AM IN THE PLAYPEN WITH MILDRED...CRAWL IN WITH US! ***

Posted by: bonnie on 2010-03-11, 04:55:06

SEE RESHMA I FEEL IT IS NORMAL TO GO TO ADULT SITES N EVEN BROWSE THRU ANY DIRTY SITES FOR A MAN.I THINK EVERY NORMAL MALE LIVING IN INDIA DOES IT WHEN HE IS FREE N WHEN HE DOES NOT HAVE HIS WIFE AROUND. THIS IS SIMPLY VOYUERISM WHICH IS VERY PREVALENT IN INDIA.THIS IS WHY PEOPLE SEE X-RATED FILMS.I THINK ALMOST 100% MALES OF INDIAN ORIGIN WILL DO IT N THE ONE WHO WILL NOT ARE ACTUALLY SEXUALLY INACTIVE.I BELIEVE YOUR HUSBAND WHEN HE SAYS THAT HE JUST BROWSED THE SITES N NEVER DID ANYTHING(SEX WITH ANYONE INTRODUCED THRU THESE SITES).LET ME TELL YOU I WAS BROWSING THESE SITES FOR 2 YEARS AT A STRETCH N NEVER COULD MEET ANY GIRL.THE MAX. I GOT TO WAS EXCHANGE A FEW MESSAGES ON THOSE(DIRTY)SITES,NOW I UNDERSTAND THAT THESE MSGS WERE ALSO SENT BY THE SITE OPERATORS JUST TO RUN THEIR BUSINESS/ SITES.YOU SEE UNTIL N UNLESS WE DO NOT WRITE OR SAY THAT WE WANT TO MEET THESE GIRLS WE CANNOT PROCEED FOR FRIENDSHIP N THIS IS DONE FOR FUN B'COZ IT TINGLES YOUR SEX DRIVE OR YOU MAY EVEN CALL IT AT MOST TITILATION.I THINK YOU SHOULD FORGIVE HIM AS YOU SAY YOU HAD NO DOUBT ON HIM FOR THE PAST 10 YEARS OF MARRIAGE. AS FOR ANAL SEX MY ADVISE WILL BE JUST TRY IT BUT BE CAREFUL IN THE BEGINNING AS IT CAUSE A LITTLE PAIN.MAYBE THIS IS HIS FANTASY N SEE IF CAN FULFIL IT.I HOPE YOU WILL UNDERSTAND WHAT I HAVE TRIED TO CONVEY AND LET ME TELL YOU THIS SOMETHING ONLY AN INDIAN CAN UNDERSTAND.DO NOT GO BY WHAT FORIEGNERS SAY AS THEIR OUTLOOK AND APPROACH TOWARDS SEX IS VERY VERY DIFFERENT.THEY DO NOT LIVE IN A SEX STARVED SOCIETY AS OURS N WE DO NOT HAVE SUCH VARIETY IN SEXUAL BEHAVIOUR AS IN OTHER COUNTRIES.GOD BLESS YOU N MAY YOU HAVE A WONDERFUL MARRIED LIFE.