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Nervous on first dates how keep your frame?
So I have found on first dates I tend to get nervous and wonder if I'm meeting her expectations. I want to go into them making her try to meet my expectations and keep that frame throughout the date. How can I do this?

Would you ever date someone who did this?
Okay so my friend is freaking out This guy broke up with her after dating for 4 months and then a week later kissed a girl and then my friend told everyone I'm really worried about her reputation right now and how people will see her after this...Guys would you ever date someone like this? She did it out of emotional spite and though she can't see it now, she's going to regret this in the morning.The problem is that it was a WEEK after they had broken up, barely enough time to get over something like that and she was devastated. The big problem is that she told EVERYONE and now looks like an idiot. Do you think she wants people to pity her by doing this? That's what some people have been whispering behind her back...

How to tell my friend I like her, but I don't wanna date her?
I've known my friend for a year now and I like her alot, but the way my life I'd now, I cant really be in a relationship. I wanna date her one day, but my life is hectic right now and it's sorta impossible now. I wanna let her know how I feel before she dates a guy, but I just can't date right now. Any ideas on how I can do this

What should I get my boyfriend for his birthday? We have only been dating for a couple of days?
He asked me out yesterday actually So yeah. His birthday is in like 6 days...would it be weird to get him a present? I mean, its pretty early in the relationship...and hes really shy and everything well so I am but... I was actually thinking of giving him a hug since we haven't hugged or held hands yet or anything but do you think that would be weird? I am 14 and he is my first boyfriend so I really don't know what to do...?Ok, so those of you saying I should get him a present...what should I get him? ? ? ?

Dating and living with a white mature woman?
i am a 21 years old guy came from India to Melbourne as an international student. i came to Melbourne in July 2010 and i have been here for 7 months.3 months ago i met a 42 years old nice Aussie women in a gym . we have been dating each other for two and a half months. she is really pretty ,slim and sexy. she works at a bank in Melbourne as an account and rich enough. i have been living with her in her home for the last two months.she cares me well and she makes no dreams at all . sex is also grate . she loves sex, me too. daily we do lovemaking in the mornings and nights. in India my first girlfriend is very fuzzy about sex. i work as a team member at KFC in Melbourne and earn some money. that is not enough for my entire uni fees. she pays part of it.she teaches me how to speak with Australian accent .what i understand is she loves and cares me welllast week she told me, we have to plan for a baby this year . . i don't know how can i manage if i she gets pregnant or if i become a father of a baby ?how can i tell her at this stage we don't want a baby ? may be next year ?she already has a daughter who is 20 years old and living with her boyfriend come to here mum's place where i am staying now on weekends. she hates me and our relationship. . when she is talking with her mum and if i go there, her daughter says to me " don't come here until i go " this is really embarrassing to me. .her mum told her i am her boyfriend and you can't behave like that . . . but she is very arrogant. . may be i am Indian. . how can i manage her daughter ?can i tell my parents in Indian about my relationship ? because she is the same ago of my mum'ssuggestions would be appreciated and thanks heaps in advance . .

How to bring up whether or not your date sees marriage as something they would want in their future?
I am back in the dating game. Blah. I'm 31 years old and I'm tired of daing wishywashy men who treat marriage like a dirty word. I've never been married, by the way.I want to weed through these people who don't feel particularly compelled toward marriage. The thing is I'm so nervous about asking men about that now.I would prefer to find out off the bat, but how do I broach the subject without coming off like I'm some kind of crazy woman who will marry anything that breaths? That's not the case, I just don't want to date and develop anything serious with men who arent really into the idea of marriage in general, because our life goals are different.The question wouldn't be whether or not they'd marry ME, clearly because it would only be on the first date or within the first couple of dates, but whether they have the goal of getting married one day.Thanks for any input Yes, thank you but, how does a person ask such a question without sounding crazy?

Should I continue dating or liking her? or should i forget her at all?
There is a girl that I meet and ask her number we exchange messages always every day when and time she personally explain the situation why she didn't text back right away. there is a time that she mention the name Dan when I ask her " who is it is he your brother?" she replied he is my Crush and when i said really?.. she said No just kidding he is my just my friend.and I ask her out she said yes. after the dinner. we stroll etc. I always treat her to dinner foods almost everything because I like her.. but she said she is very shy for what I been doing always for her. how to avoid her not being shy? I did all the spending because I really like her last night they had some drink with her friend house and and she is not drinking at all.. I ask her why? she said because of her boyfriend then I ask her who? I was shocked and ask Really who it is? she said Dan. and i Text her back saying that it is an Insult to your boyfriend Dan if we keep texting each other. I want to respect him and we should stop this. and she said No its so unfair.. It's just Ok with him. I don't know what she's up. last time she said that Dan is just her friend. and I confess to her that I like her we continue texting last night until this morning I realize that I should stop texting for what she said that she has a boyfriend. what should I do? thank you in advance. please forgive my grammar and misspelling and my punctuations.

I don't know what to do about dating?
I'm a 17 year old girl and i have never dated. I had my first kiss last summer and i have only liked a few guys. I cant " just date" , its really rare when i really like a guy. Im a very flirtatious person and i have a lot of guy friends but when im with a guy im really attracted to i get shy and i cant think. Im an attractive person too like ive had guys like me but just not any i had feelings for idk i want to date but idk how to stop being shy around guys im attracted to.

Please help, no one will answer. Did this guy just want a "hook up" (I'm new to college and dating)?
I am a freshman in college and my friend " Steve" told me a junior in a frat, " Greg," thought I was cute. I had met him a couple times before and could tell he was attracted to me , but I don't know if he remembers. Steve took me to Greg's not frat house one night and emphasized me to him. It was not a party there were only 5 people there , but there was music lights off. Greg sat next to me and talked. He pulled me in while me and my friends were dancing, so I started dancing with him. He said I was the hottest girl in the room and asked to take this somewhere private. I said " sure" and he didn't like the skepticism and said not to do anything I'm uncomfortable with.He kissed made out with me asked first on his bed. I said I didn't want to sleep with him and he said that was perfectly ok, but he still asked what the limits were and if the shirt was coming off. I stupidly took it off, then after awhile he stopped, saying I was " too drunk for this" and he " didn't like taking advantage." He asked for my number, we stayed in his room, he put his arm around me, and we talked about ourselves. He offered to let me stay the night have breakfast the next day with him and friends I said no, that's ok. As I left he said I should text him sometime I didn't really respond . I overheard him complimenting me to my friend.Four days later I texted him " Hey there What's Greg up to?" and he said " In the library. Shoot me now." I did not respond, but I passed him without recognizing him the next day on campus. He was smiling but I looked confused, and we awkwardly passed each other. We went back to his house a couple weekend nights later he didn't invite me specifically . He hugged me, I sat next to another guy then moved next to him, and we talked. He was drunk. I was sitting close to him, but I still talked to other guys that were flirting with me. He briefly put his hand on my knee and said " you're not gonna leave, right?" before getting up to get more alcohol.When he came back I was in the bathroom, but he moved to sit next to me when I got out. He showed me that his hat had my hometown on it, complimented my shoes and remembered I wore them last time. My girlfriend jokingly said she would rather grind with me than this other guy, and Greg said so would he. We didn't kiss neither of us tried to. I jumped up to leave when my friends left no good byes from anyone to get pizza. He yelled after us to get him some, and we said he should come, but he just stared at us too drunk late? . He was passed out when I came back to get my purse an hour later. He NEVER contacted me, but I facebook friend requested him weeks later. After more weeks my friends jokingly put that I was in a relationship on my facebook I took it off 3 weeks later. TWO MONTHS went by without contact. 1 1 2 months ago on a Saturday I texted him again Me So my friend is in Groove and he just showed me a picture from the concert and you were in it Congratulations Greg Haha thanks Who's your friend?Me ? But apparently he's just a fan who's trying to join next semester. Poser...Greg Haha yeah I was gonna say I didn't recognize the name...did you go to the concert?Me No i'm sorry, I didn't know about it. Are there any more coming up?Greg Haha no worries but yeah we do one per semester. I think next semester's is in early April.Me Well that's exciting. Go practice.Greg Haha alright I guess I will. But hey I'm going to bed cause I gotta be up at 7. Night Maggie.And the next Wednesday, I texted him again Me Aand sorry to bother you again, but is currently looking up how to pick up girls. I think you should have him banned from smoking his apple behind phi psiGreg Hahaha wooww that kid is something else. Apparently he told a kid in phi psi during rush that he pretends he's gay to get girls...Me Hmmm...well I'll talk to you later, I should probably study for my final tomorrow or somethingGreg Haha that sucks you have one this late. What class?Me Great Books. Don't ever take it. Ever.Greg Hahaha I've only heard bad things about that class. Good luck with itFor Christmas, I texted him " Merry merry Christmas ," which sounds like a mass text but it wasn't. He didn't respond. Then 2 weeks ago I texted him AGAIN I'm regretful embarrassed " Wow I haven't seen you in really a very long time. Do you see Steve a lot? I'll try to go out with him sometime" and before he responded, I said " Ha by that I meant I would hang around his crowd since they will probably see you. Did not mean I wanted to " go out" with Steve. This is why texting sucks." Four hours later he texted " Haha no you're good I know what you meant." By his facebook pictures, it appears that he had a girlfriend from high school up until before this school year started. She is from his hometown, but she goes to a different college than us. She put a few non romantic messages fairly recently on his facebook wall, but they are no longer facebook friends and his relationship status says " single." It seems like he is playing the field, as his more recent pictures are with sorority girls at bars, etc. This makes me think he's a player. Has he never initiated texts or asked me out because he doesn t know me well enough we only hung out twice , he doesn t want a relationship, or he just doesn t like me? Did he lose interest move on because so much time passed, or never have it? This was my first kiss he doesn t know and I'm not used to college " hook ups," so I'm scared he thinks I'm desperate for still thinking about him and texting him.

Unsure about what kind of full body photo to upload to a dating website, serious answers only please?
I am a 31 year old woman and recently starting using a dating website I haven't tried out before. I'm trying to attract people who aren't dating for sex.The problem I am having is how to pick a good full body shot or at least a shot showing most of my torso. I look very young. I am quite thin, but very curvy. I am having trouble choosing a shot because, on one hand, if I pick something that kind of camouflages my curves and my chest, which is what I've been doing....think recent photos wearing a coat, it doesn't show what I really look like.My issue is that if I'm not in something that obscures my body, I cut the picture off right above my chest. I am trying to avoid attention on my chest and curves, I'd rather keep my chest a secret, but then it looks like I'm hiding something in my pictures. Any advice?I have a picture of me wearing a tank top in the summer near the water and I'm afraid to post it.Agh, to clarify, I'm trying to attract people who are looking for relationships and are in the frame of mind to settle down, not people who are out for sex.

I was dating a aries man for four years. we have three children together. he says he doesnt want to be with me?
But turns around and acts jealous over everything. He was suppose to move months ago and is still here. I have had enough and feel as though the games have to end. Either we are together or we are not. He says not. That's fine, but he needs to move out and on. Idk what the heck is going on and I feel like this is a game to him. Any insight yall? He has the money to move out, but uses the kids as an excuse.Excuse, we didnt date, we were together for four years. we recently broke up 5 months ago