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I need college dating advise?
boys in college only want sex. for example met a guy at a party in the begining of september. he started texting me every once and a while which led up to texting quite alot. he kept asking me to hang out with him but i kept denying him because i thought he just wanted to sleep with me. i finally hung out with him but wouldnt even kiss him. he came over one night when he was drunk and slept over and all we did was make out. i finally gave in and had sex with him what can i say im a sexual person too and he hasnt texted me since. after working for like 3 months to get me is that really all he could have wanted ? we just had sex monday so he hasnt texted me in 2 days but still. so my question is how are you supposed to date in college? i feel like i cant trust any guys to even attempt to get to know them if all they want is anyone have any stories about how they met their bf or gf and how it went. im only a freshman so im really confused lol thanks for the help

Is college dating easier than high school dating?

Is this a realistic for college dating?
I'm just worried that all the girls i like will be taken by the end of the first week. I don't like to rush into a relationship and would much prefer to get to know someone first. I like the pretty nice girl, or the girl next door type and have enough confidence to go up, talk, flirt, etc.

Feels out of place with college dating?
I have always been known as a shy, nice girl. I am 19 years old and when it comes to dating I can be very sensitive and easily insulted to the point I'll just pull the brakes on something. Although I am clearly not a virgin, I still find sexual innunedos too early on as totally disresepctful. Some guys get annoyed when they know that a girl isn't a virgin and withholds sex. They assume if she's had sex before she better do it with me ASAP. Clearly I wouldn't make a guy wait 6 months but atleast 1 3 months while getting to know a person isn't THAT much time. I guess due to society I never have sex with a guy when we are not a public couple. All girls get emotionally tangled, so it would never be a loving encounter and it would never stay a secret.I am not the kind of girl that will think its okay for a guy I barely know to sext me. I do not like dirty talking to a complete stranger. I have met a fair share of guys that disappear and only want to see you once a week when they get you drunk never have sex though , then the guys that play controlling games and lie, the ones who brag about their sex lives and being with 30 girls etc etc.I feel so pressured because one of my top morals is to NEVER have sex with a guy just for the " fun" of it I don't want to be used and I need trust love to do that with any guy. I feel that SO many other girl sext guys and people meet and within a week or 2 weeks of knowing eachother they have sex.Is it just a guy trying to push his limit hoping you'll put out early? & If a guy starts sending sexual innuendos very early on that seem out of place to you is that him making himself clear he's out for one thing only? Sometimes due to sensitivity I can overreact but I guy I really liked that I barely knew basically said he's not the most patient guy but he would wait if I wanted to.I could not believe he had the nerve to say that when we hung out one time. Guys get annoyed when girls push the relationship question on them prematurely so why is it ok to assume he will get sex. Girls are taught their whole life that guys have crazy hormones and their looking for the first route that will ensure sex. So is what he said insulting or just putting it out there early on since we're not 15 anymore?Of course I think he's very good looking & I would definitely have sex with him if regret guilt didn't exist. I was very flattered but I got insulted because I know he got out of a relationship recently and I don't want to be some rebound bootycall to get over his ex.

Is this a realistic fear for college dating?
I'm just worried that all the girls i like will be taken by the end of the first week. I don't like to rush into a relationship and would much prefer to get to know someone first. I like the pretty nice girl, or the girl next door type and have enough confidence to go up, talk, flirt, etc.

Why are girls flake when it comes to college dating? Read my detail.?
It's like the girl is completely cool when you see her say in public . Or if you run into her on campus or somewhere she would stop, talk for minutes and she would mention . Why is it that as soon as I try to shoot a call, text or face book some of em' act as if they never knew you or can't respond back ever. I met some of these in the dorms, classes, and other places on campus. She was single so what's up ladies? College dating I feel is pretty useless lol for they turn out to be flakes. It's bad at times where you gotta have backup dates just in case. No These aren't just some party chicks or club rats though I know of a few.

WTF is going on?! I need college dating advice. I don't know how this works!?
I know high school dating is completely different from college dating.I met this random guy in college. We study sometimes but it seems like thats all we do. We don't actually study, he always finishes before our study sessions so all we do is hang out actually or just check over answers. We can hang out for hours, its great. But it seems like all he does is ask me to study. I haven't known him for too long. Do I ask him to do other stuff or do I wait for him to take it to the next level? Does he even like me? What's your experience for this?He was not too shy to ask for my number first but will he eventually ask me out or are we just going to " study" forever?We don't have like hour long texting sessions. Does texting matter?Does he even like me? If he liked me as a friend would he keep hanging with me like this?Am I in the friendzone?

Help with college dating?
So this girl that I'm interested in and I know she's interested in me her best friend told me and I can tell goes to college an hour and a half away from her hometown which is also my hometown and where I go to school. So over this last Christmas we got to know each other through other friends. She's now back down there and since we have texted rarely but I'm going down soon to meet up with her. I'm wondering how I should approach this situation. Should I try anything or should I wait until summer when I will eventually transfer to her college? Or your other thoughts please. I go to a community college and there are no girls, honestly. This girl is Christian and a rarity in my eyes. So don't tell me to forget about her, I'm looking for ways to approach this as in " just talk to her and see where it goes" " see how dating goes until you move down there next semester" that kind of stuff. Thanks

What is the interracial college dating scene like? im mainly interested in Asian & White women?
Are they generally open to interracial in college?

College dating Vs. High School dating?
I'm a high school senior right now, attended a very small and very close knit private school. When I go to college next fall, what should I expect to change if anything at all ?

College dating...GIRLS PLEASE HELP? I have no clue about texting girls and the rules on texting this girl?
I'm 23 and Sarah is 22.Okay so this semester I am taking a bowling class at my college we have to take a physical education course . This girl named Sarah and I bowl together every class. We've gotten to know each other on a personal level minimally, but the second time we had class, she told me I looked familiar. We started talking about our past and we ended up discovering that we were in choir together in elementary school...like...12 years ago, and we also went to the same jr. high school. I thought it was interesting that she brought it up. We started talking more, and it turns out we both played soccer our entire childhood and teenage years. Sarah is in the nursing program right now, and I am applying to dental schools this summer, so we are both interested in health care fields. We also have the same sarcastic sense of humor. During class, she always laughs at the things I say.BUT...there is a problem Sarah's friend is always by her in class, so I never get a chance to ask Sarah out in person.This past Sunday, I was going into a coffee shop to meet a girl named Katie for a date. Sarah happened to be in there studying of all people lol so I talk with her for a couple minutes, and I tell her I'm meeting this girl Katie for a coffee date. I tell Sarah that I better stop flirting with her, so my date won't see. Sarah smiled and laughed at this. She then tells me it'd be funny if I got stood up just joking with me ...so I tell her " Well, if this girl doesn't show up, then you and I can just have a coffee date " to which Sarah smiled and happily said " ok " ...so this made me think she was interested in going out with me. Katie showed up though lol, so Katie and I left to go eat dinner. As we were leaving, Sarah was watching me the whole time as we made our way to the door, so I waved goodbye to Sarah.Well, I found Sarah on facebook today and sent her a message. We sent each other a couple messages, and she sent me a friend request I haven't accepted it yet . She told me she is going home for Spring Break, and asked me how I was spending mine. I told her my plans, and then asked her " hey whenever you get back into town next week, I would like to take you out for dinner. Do you want to swap phone numbers?" She replied back " sure, my number is " she gave me her number My question is Does she like me and does she want to have dinner since she knows my implication is to take her on a date? How soon should I text her? she doesn't have my number yet And...should I text her over the spring break a couple of times, so I will be on her mind? I honestly have no clue how to handle this situation because...I want to get to know her and chat with her, but I don't want to hassle text her. How many times should I text her?

Need your opinion(College dating/ yeah just read)!?
ok so I am transfering to another school next fall so in all reality i have like 4 weeks left, and well this school is going to be in another state as well.My friend is trying to confense me to grow a pair and tell some of the girls that i have liked but have been to shy to say anything too... that well I like them. or in his words " just tell her name that you think she is looking good and see if she wants to ahng out... what you got to lose man?" So me i think that well i am a a wuss and well hahaha, cant really get the balls up to say anything. because well i still have these 4 weeks left here. idk, i kinda would like to see what could happen, but on the other hand i could get slapped..ALOT ..hahahaWhat is your guy's take on this situation i have going, do you think i should or do you think i shouldn't?

College dating and such?
I'm going to be a junior next year and i can't believe how fast time has gone by. i have an ex who i love so much and we started going out when we were in hs. anyways, he made the decision to be single sophomore year and focus on his studies etc. i also think it was good to see if we were depriving ourselves from experiencing other love interests. i dated around some but didn't find anyone who made sparks fly like my ex did. i miss him and i know that it's not just the love or the company that i miss. summer is here and i don't know what i should do. do you guys think i just need to keep my distance from him? or should i not lose hope? he says he put his love for me aside to focus on important things ie. school. is a guy who does that worth even waiting for?thanks in advance we don't talk much because it was really hard for me to accept the breakup. i know he still likes talking to me though. he hasn't been whoring around, he's sort of a quiet low key guy. if i'm going to broach the subject with him though i want it to be convincing enough since i am putting myself out there.

First College dating experience help! Does he even like me? What's going on?
I know high school dating is completely different from college dating.I met this random guy in college. We study sometimes but it seems like thats all we do. We don't actually study, he always finishes before our study sessions so all we do is hang out actually or just check over answers. We can hang out for hours, its great. But it seems like all he does is ask me to study. I haven't known him for too long. Do I ask him to do other stuff or do I wait for him to take it to the next level? Does he even like me? What's your experience for this?He was not too shy to ask for my number first but will he eventually ask me out or are we just going to " study" forever?We don't have like hour long texting sessions. Does texting matter?Does he even like me? If he liked me as a friend would he keep hanging with me like this?