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What am I doing? Am I dating properly?
I'm gay and almost 19, very new to the dating scene etc. I am more than just shy I have social anxiety disorder but nobody knows, I'm just called quiet. Due to recent experiences using dating sites I have pre conceived ideas about what I want in a relationship but now I am all over the place when I come face to face with the actual thing. I've had 5 6 dates with a nice guy who is 24, met off the dating site. He said he was looking for the same thing a long term relationship, proper one and not a short fling, something maybe with marriage in the pipeline. Now that we've met a few times and actually slept together I am worried about what a relationship actually encompasses and if I'm ready for one. I don't want to believe that I'm not ready for fear of losing the guy. I just feel as if I'm going to be paranoid and distrustful about cheating and stuff which I'm firmly against and apparently he is too but I remain distrusting , particularly where technology is concerned eg web chat, texts, facebook all where suggestive and harmful things can be perceived and kill relationships. And if I am like this way then that's not going to be fair for him and everything will fall apart. I'm not even sure if we're in a relationship, I haven't asked and am too scared to in case of embarrassing myself. I did last time on my first date with another guy, when I asked if we were in a relationship after one date and sleep together...needless to say that's history. My main issue is do I tell him my nervous fears paranoia BEFORE or AFTER asking if we're in a relationship? And how do I ask that indirectly? And.. WHAT is a relationship? My head is muddled and I don't know what it means anymore.

Im dating a guy and this otha guys still likes me, my ex, so me and my ex r fighting, what should I do?
confution?

I am dating a girl that I don't really have feelings for. What do I do?
She's amazing, and great and I have small feelings for her. I just asked her to be my girlfriend today but I don't know if my feelings for her are strong enough. I don't know what to do.

Why does age matter when it comes to dating?
so why does age matter when it comes to dating a person?example the guy is 19 and the girl is 16example the guys is 37 and the girl is 18example the guy is 21 and the girl is 15?why does age matter ???

Who finds dating tougher, an ugly guy or an ugly girl ?
I reckon its the guy 'cos a girl can do a lot with make up and clothes and guys are generally more desperate anyway

I really like one of my bestfriends but she's dating some guy (not so great guy)?
N me n her match so well but I don't know war to say to her but this guy ain't in it for the long run

Am I old fashioned and boring in my traditional dating techniques?
HelloIm not that old but I come from the old school of dating and shall we say " courtship " I am very much of the opinion that I would like to meet a girl at least 5 or 6 times on a friendship only basis without making any moves at all even including a kiss or holding of the handI am naturally quite laid back as well and I although I have strong moral principles I dont want to scare someone I really like off because I am adopting a " too hands off approach " and am letting things go very slowly because I am not with the current convention of being all over someone after the first or second dateYour comments would be much appreciated Am I too much ingrained in the past with my dating technique and at risk of putting a new partner off ?thank youI think the use of the wrod technique was the wrong word to use and made it sound very clinical and uninteresting that is NOT me at all Thanks to everyone for the answers BTW

I've been "dating" someone amazing for a little while now but........?
the problem is that she bores me a little sometimes. is that bad? i don't mean the conversations but there's just nothing really interesting about her although i really like her and am starting to have feelings for her but i feel bored. is that normal? i really do like her and have no idea why i get bored with her it's not her personality or anything i just get bored when i think about her that's never happened before in my relationships. no guy responses saying that you just need to find a guy, most guys bore me and disgust me so i'm not going there.

So I got talking to this girl on dating site?
So I got talking to this girl on a dating site then I told her that I was on facebook and its been almost 2 weeks that we have been talking on facebook and she is a very nice girl and she said you are a really nice lad and I said if you ever new me in person you would think im a nice lad and then she said your lovely. we live in the same district. do you think we should meet or not or just talk or what?

Im dating this gorgeous girl, but she wont tell her father that we are dating?
I have been over her home over 5 times and i dont think her father knows that we are dating and fcking. I have slept there once and it was in a spare bedroom, the father is very protective and i think he thinks we are just friends. What does this mean, how do i deal with the father, im thinking of kissing her in front of him.

What's the purpose of dating of you don't LIKE the other person?
My boyfriend says he doesn't like me anymore, but that he wants to keep dating me. I'm trying to explain to him that it doesn't make any sense right? What should I say?

I've been dating this woman for a little while now but..........?
the problem is that she bores me a little sometimes. is that bad? i don't mean the conversations but there's just nothing really interesting about her although i really like her and am starting to have feelings for her but i feel bored. is that normal? i really do like her and have no idea why i get bored with her it's not her personality or anything i just get bored when i think about her that's never happened before in my relationships.

Why won't girls date me ?
okay i don't know if it's just me, but for some reason im not attracting alot of attention when it comes to those dating sites like plenty of fish.com nor zoosk nor anything. am i missing something here ?

Should my friend date a 32 year old woman?
My friend is 20 and male. He has recently started dating a 32 year old woman, they even moved in together. Its so strange. Whats wrong with him and even more seriously, what would a 32 year old woman want with a 20 year old man. Shes not attractive and the whole thing is F % ed up in my opinion. I don't have a question. Just want other peoples thoughts on the relationship.