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I don't know what to do about dating?
I'm a 17 year old girl and i have never dated. I had my first kiss last summer and i have only liked a few guys. I cant " just date" , its really rare when i really like a guy. Im a very flirtatious person and i have a lot of guy friends but when im with a guy im really attracted to i get shy and i cant think. Im an attractive person too like ive had guys like me but just not any i had feelings for idk i want to date but idk how to stop being shy around guys im attracted to.

When I am 18 years old I am thinking of joining a dating site, should I ?
I was thinking of joining a dating site such as zoosk, or lavalife, and the reason why is because I really want to get a girlfriend, and I feel that it would be better if I were to talk to someone online at first, then meet them in person, and proceed from there. Should I, I had enough of this high school bullshit for one day, I am skipping the prom

Thoughts on a 16 year old dating an 19 year old?
let's say the 16 year old was a guy and the 19 year old was a girl

Please help, no one will answer. Did this guy just want a "hook up" (I'm new to college and dating)?
I am a freshman in college and my friend " Steve" told me a junior in a frat, " Greg," thought I was cute. I had met him a couple times before and could tell he was attracted to me , but I don't know if he remembers. Steve took me to Greg's not frat house one night and emphasized me to him. It was not a party there were only 5 people there , but there was music lights off. Greg sat next to me and talked. He pulled me in while me and my friends were dancing, so I started dancing with him. He said I was the hottest girl in the room and asked to take this somewhere private. I said " sure" and he didn't like the skepticism and said not to do anything I'm uncomfortable with.He kissed made out with me asked first on his bed. I said I didn't want to sleep with him and he said that was perfectly ok, but he still asked what the limits were and if the shirt was coming off. I stupidly took it off, then after awhile he stopped, saying I was " too drunk for this" and he " didn't like taking advantage." He asked for my number, we stayed in his room, he put his arm around me, and we talked about ourselves. He offered to let me stay the night have breakfast the next day with him and friends I said no, that's ok. As I left he said I should text him sometime I didn't really respond . I overheard him complimenting me to my friend.Four days later I texted him " Hey there What's Greg up to?" and he said " In the library. Shoot me now." I did not respond, but I passed him without recognizing him the next day on campus. He was smiling but I looked confused, and we awkwardly passed each other. We went back to his house a couple weekend nights later he didn't invite me specifically . He hugged me, I sat next to another guy then moved next to him, and we talked. He was drunk. I was sitting close to him, but I still talked to other guys that were flirting with me. He briefly put his hand on my knee and said " you're not gonna leave, right?" before getting up to get more alcohol.When he came back I was in the bathroom, but he moved to sit next to me when I got out. He showed me that his hat had my hometown on it, complimented my shoes and remembered I wore them last time. My girlfriend jokingly said she would rather grind with me than this other guy, and Greg said so would he. We didn't kiss neither of us tried to. I jumped up to leave when my friends left no good byes from anyone to get pizza. He yelled after us to get him some, and we said he should come, but he just stared at us too drunk late? . He was passed out when I came back to get my purse an hour later. He NEVER contacted me, but I facebook friend requested him weeks later. After more weeks my friends jokingly put that I was in a relationship on my facebook I took it off 3 weeks later. TWO MONTHS went by without contact. 1 1 2 months ago on a Saturday I texted him again Me So my friend is in Groove and he just showed me a picture from the concert and you were in it Congratulations Greg Haha thanks Who's your friend?Me ? But apparently he's just a fan who's trying to join next semester. Poser...Greg Haha yeah I was gonna say I didn't recognize the name...did you go to the concert?Me No i'm sorry, I didn't know about it. Are there any more coming up?Greg Haha no worries but yeah we do one per semester. I think next semester's is in early April.Me Well that's exciting. Go practice.Greg Haha alright I guess I will. But hey I'm going to bed cause I gotta be up at 7. Night Maggie.And the next Wednesday, I texted him again Me Aand sorry to bother you again, but is currently looking up how to pick up girls. I think you should have him banned from smoking his apple behind phi psiGreg Hahaha wooww that kid is something else. Apparently he told a kid in phi psi during rush that he pretends he's gay to get girls...Me Hmmm...well I'll talk to you later, I should probably study for my final tomorrow or somethingGreg Haha that sucks you have one this late. What class?Me Great Books. Don't ever take it. Ever.Greg Hahaha I've only heard bad things about that class. Good luck with itFor Christmas, I texted him " Merry merry Christmas ," which sounds like a mass text but it wasn't. He didn't respond. Then 2 weeks ago I texted him AGAIN I'm regretful embarrassed " Wow I haven't seen you in really a very long time. Do you see Steve a lot? I'll try to go out with him sometime" and before he responded, I said " Ha by that I meant I would hang around his crowd since they will probably see you. Did not mean I wanted to " go out" with Steve. This is why texting sucks." Four hours later he texted " Haha no you're good I know what you meant." By his facebook pictures, it appears that he had a girlfriend from high school up until before this school year started. She is from his hometown, but she goes to a different college than us. She put a few non romantic messages fairly recently on his facebook wall, but they are no longer facebook friends and his relationship status says " single." It seems like he is playing the field, as his more recent pictures are with sorority girls at bars, etc. This makes me think he's a player. Has he never initiated texts or asked me out because he doesn t know me well enough we only hung out twice , he doesn t want a relationship, or he just doesn t like me? Did he lose interest move on because so much time passed, or never have it? This was my first kiss he doesn t know and I'm not used to college " hook ups," so I'm scared he thinks I'm desperate for still thinking about him and texting him.

Online dating? what would you girls do if.......?
you were emailing a guy you liked and you was talking to him for 2 weeks, but all of a sudden he updated his profile on this dating website. well i have just made this mistake and i think that's why this girl is ignoring my previous message? i'm really just not good good when reading womens signals. i did hint that i liked her and i still do, i don t know what to say to her. i do really like this girl but i'm not 100 % if she feels the same. help?

What should I get my boyfriend for his birthday? We have only been dating for a couple of days?
He asked me out yesterday actually So yeah. His birthday is in like 6 days...would it be weird to get him a present? I mean, its pretty early in the relationship...and hes really shy and everything well so I am but... I was actually thinking of giving him a hug since we haven't hugged or held hands yet or anything but do you think that would be weird? I am 14 and he is my first boyfriend so I really don't know what to do...?

I was dating a aries man for four years. we have three children together. he says he doesnt want to be with me?
But turns around and acts jealous over everything. He was suppose to move months ago and is still here. I have had enough and feel as though the games have to end. Either we are together or we are not. He says not. That's fine, but he needs to move out and on. Idk what the heck is going on and I feel like this is a game to him. Any insight yall? He has the money to move out, but uses the kids as an excuse.Excuse, we didnt date, we were together for four years. we recently broke up 5 months ago

Unsure about what kind of full body photo to upload to a dating website, serious answers only please?
I am a 31 year old woman and recently starting using a dating website I haven't tried out before. I'm trying to attract people who aren't dating for sex.The problem I am having is how to pick a good full body shot or at least a shot showing most of my torso. I look very young. I am quite thin, but very curvy. I am having trouble choosing a shot because, on one hand, if I pick something that kind of camouflages my curves and my chest, which is what I've been doing....think recent photos wearing a coat, it doesn't show what I really look like.My issue is that if I'm not in something that obscures my body, I cut the picture off right above my chest. I am trying to avoid attention on my chest and curves, I'd rather keep my chest a secret, but then it looks like I'm hiding something in my pictures. Any advice?I have a picture of me wearing a tank top in the summer near the water and I'm afraid to post it.Agh, to clarify, I'm trying to attract people who are looking for relationships and are in the frame of mind to settle down, not people who are out for sex.

I'm an 18 year old virgin. Should I tell girls I date?
Do girls think it's a turn off and would they like me less if I tell them I'm a virgin, I mean girls that I am dating. I would wait for the right time but should I tell them? I watch porn so I do know what to so when the time comes.

Girls: would you date me?
Ok, I'm 16 and I've been trying to find someone to date and be with for 4 years now with absolutely no luck. I dated one girl, but she dumped me in a week for her ex, then I tried dating her again but she ran off with 2 other guys. I've tried approaching ither girls and trying to get to know them but they all just give me hateful looks and run off with the more popular guys. I'm not that bad looking but I'm not the best looking either, and all I ever hear from my friends is how good their lives are cuz they get so much pussy and they can get any girls they want. I feel so worthless cuz I can't meet or date anyone, I can't go to anyones house to meet anyone cuz I don't have a car or any form of transportation, and the worst part out of all of it is I'm a virgin, nd all my friends talk about is pussy and how much they get, they've offered to help but I'm so independant I don't want help. Does anybody have any helpful advice what so ever? Here's my facebook check me out and decide for youselves. facebook.com profile.php?id 100001970102226& sk infoR

How to bring up whether or not your date sees marriage as something they would want in their future?
I am back in the dating game. Blah. I'm 31 years old and I'm tired of daing wishywashy men who treat marriage like a dirty word. I've never been married, by the way.I want to weed through these people who don't feel particularly compelled toward marriage. The thing is I'm so nervous about asking men about that now.I would prefer to find out off the bat, but how do I broach the subject without coming off like I'm some kind of crazy woman who will marry anything that breaths? That's not the case, I just don't want to date and develop anything serious with men who arent really into the idea of marriage in general, because our life goals are different.The question wouldn't be whether or not they'd marry ME, clearly because it would only be on the first date or within the first couple of dates, but whether they have the goal of getting married one day.Thanks for any input Yes, thank you but, how does a person ask such a question without sounding crazy?

Have my first date tomorrow. I need some advice?
I am 15 years old and have never really had a real boyfriend or a real date. The person I like asked me out and we are going to see Woman in Black tomorrow at 7 40. I went to the movies with a guy before and it was supposed to be a date but it was literally unbearably awkward and weird. We barely said two words to each other. I am a shy, nervous girl when it comes to liking and dating someone and I don't know what to do. He seems like he will be the type of guy who gets nervous and quiet too. This is what absolutely ruined the " date" last time and I really want this one to work out. What can I do to be confident and friendly and not dead silent? I want this date to be enjoyable, for him and for me, and I need to know what to do. Also he hasn't gone out with anyone either. When I started to get to know him one of our mutual friends even said he isn't really the having a girlfriend dating type because he has never asked anyone or seemed to be interested in anyone . I know he will be nervous too and I just need some advice because I am freaking out and really nervous.

Can anyone explain to me this date problem?
So i have been dating this girl im starting to like her alot everything was going well but theres this problem she's somehow starting to loose interest in me i don't know what could've happened, i met her in college and i get what ever time i have for us to meet, shes been hiding alot it seems that she has no problem sharing herself or her personal problems with most of her friends but me. i've asked her whats wrong? and she always tries to avoid the subeject it cant be something that bad to tell everyone instead of me that we are dating, she only comes to me when she wants well.. you imagine lol. we dont just sleep together we sometimes talk but for a really short peroid of time just a hi how are you and the rest she just stays quiet to the hide again and talk with her friends, the other day i over heard one of them talking to her about a problem that she had which i dont know what it is, im trying the best i can to not be all up in her stuff cause im not like that but she lets me think lots of times she is hiding something, i really like her i dont want to break up with her.

Would you ever date someone who did this?
Okay so my friend is freaking out This guy broke up with her after dating for 4 months and then a week later kissed a girl and then my friend told everyone I'm really worried about her reputation right now and how people will see her after this...Guys would you ever date someone like this? She did it out of emotional spite and though she can't see it now, she's going to regret this in the morning.